This is a “MUST know” when it comes to dating beautiful women.
If you thought that getting a beautiful woman is the hardest thing to do, you’ll be surprised to find out how challenging can be for a man to keep a beautiful woman (maintain a healthy relationship with her).
Dating a beautiful woman for the first time is very exciting. It is almost a heavenly experience for every man, however being in a relationship with a beauty can easily turn into the nightmare if you are not prepared for the situations that are bound to happen sooner or later.
Some of those situations are:
- She gets checked out by other men even when she is with you.
- Guys approach her the moment you leave her out of your sight.
- As you two walk down the street the “tough guys” try to embarrass you by saying inappropriate things to her or you.
- She goes out alone with her girlfriends and you know that men will be all over her.
- She receives gifts from the secret admirer.
- You find out that she has secrets that she doesn’t want to share with you.
All of the situations numbered above (and other alike) are quite uncomfortable and can cause serious relationship problems unless you are well prepared for them.
How to deal with this type of situations?
First of all don’t react when you are overwhelmed with emotions (when angry or otherwise stressed). People that react with an emotional response to the given situation would get themselves in trouble more often than not.
If you want to be successful with beautiful women and in life generally, you need to master the “rational response”. This means that when something happens you don’t react instinctively (emotionally); instead you calm down, assess the situation and then choose the most effective response.
Accept the fact that you have something that great majority of men want – a beautiful woman. Therefore they will try their best to win her over and have her all for themselves. If you accept this fact your life will be much simpler because you would understand that it is completely normal that men are all over your girl when she is out by herself of with her girlfriends.
You cannot stop guys and men from being attracted to a beautiful woman (even if that woman happens to be the love of your life). Therefore you cannot prevent them from approaching her, giving her compliments, trying to flirt with her, giving her gifts, etc.
Accept this and you’ll be fine OR don’t accept it and your relationship with a beautiful woman would be doomed right from the start.
The importance of trust – if there is no trust, there is no relationship. If you don’t trust your girlfriend that she would behave appropriately when she is out by herself then your relationship with her is in a big trouble.
Jealousy is the biggest enemy of any relationship and the problem when dating a beautiful woman is that it is really not difficult to get insecure and thus jealous. After all, there are so many men that want what you have and try their best to get it. Therefore your competition is extremely high.
However, one thing you should always remember: SHE CHOSE YOU! Out of so many men you are her choice. She wants you and that is why you are together. Remind yourself of this fact whenever you feel insecure.
Self-confidence is one of the character traits that all women want in their men. Therefore even if your self-esteem gets low for some reason the last thing you should do is tell her about it. Now, you probably think to yourself: “Of course I wouldn’t tell her that I feel insecure when other men approach her or that I’m desperate when she goes out clubbing with her girlfriends.”
Most guys wouldn’t tell her either but they definitively let her know by acting (reacting) in a certain way. Just make sure you are not one of those guys.
How to react when someone is checking out your girlfriend?
Either ignore it or comment on it in a nonchalant way. Don’t be one of those “What you looking at!” guys. Be mature and don’t scream out “I’m feeling insecure!”, because that’s the exact translation of “What you looking at?!”
In other words, don’t lose your cool and self-control no matter what type of situation you find yourself in, including the awkward situations when someone is hitting on your lady in front of you or checking her out.
Always remember that true beauty comes from within.