Sometimes it is more important to know what not to say, than to say the right thing…
The very first thing that comes to your mind when looking at the beautiful woman is most likely something similar to this: “Wow she is so beautiful!” and then your thoughts tend to get nasty.
This is okay; you are a guy after all. However, keep your thoughts to yourself and make sure when you open your mouth something appropriate comes out of it.
Do not, and I repeat, do NOT act as an immature collage boy or even a high school kid that screams out: “You are sooooo fine” or “You are the hottest girl I’ve ever seen” or “I would like to get some of that!” or anything remotely similar to that.
Remember to keep your thoughts and fantasies to yourself. That is, if you want to have the change for them to come true eventually.
You are beautiful – a big No No
The last thing you want to say to a beautiful woman is that she is beautiful. She has heard that million times in million different ways. You need to be original when complimenting her (and you should always compliment a woman).
For example, instead of telling her that she is beautiful you can compliment her on her hair, shoes, dress or the way she smiles. That kind of compliment she will appreciate, and if she reacts positive to it you are one step closer to making your dreams come true.
Avoid topics about beauty
For God’s sake don’t say something like: “Beauty is only skin deep” or “beauty is in the eye of beholder” or anything else philosophical or otherwise theoretical or practical about beauty.
Also, avoid any related beauty topics such as plastic surgery or beauty treatments. Don’t discuss who the most beautiful woman in the world is, and do NOT compare her to some famous beauty no matter how flattering you may think that may be to her.
Don’t comment on other people looking at her
Beautiful women are simply impossible to ignore. In fact they are like powerful magnets that attract everybody’s attention (men and women included). Therefore, people will be looking at her and checking her out while you are on date with her, and that’s one of the things you need to accept and simply ignore.
You need to play cool, as if you are used to being with beautiful women and all of the attention they constantly get from other people. If you start commenting on other people that are looking at her you risk of being perceived as insecure and that’s always a bad thing when in company of any woman.
Don’t ask her what is it like to be beautiful
Asking her “what’s like being beautiful” or anything similar to that is pretty much tell her that she is beautiful and that’s something you shouldn’t do when trying to seduce a beautiful woman.
Also, this question can make her feel uncomfortable and that is something you definitively do not want to do.
Important thing to note is that even though you should do your best not to initiate the “beauty talk” you should be more than prepared for that type of conversation because she may bring it up, or someone else may do so by doing or saying something to her or you.
For example, imagine walking down the street with her and a guy passing by just hands her a rose and tells her she’s beautiful; or the restaurant manager tells you that the diner is on the house because you came in with the most beautiful woman he had ever seen… Things like this do happen and you should definitively react but in a very clever way.
Most importantly, make sure you don’t lose the self-control. Remember that if you can control yourself than you can control the situation as well.
You make me nervous
Of course she makes you nervous but that doesn’t mean you should tell her that. Instead you should be (check that: you should appear as) relaxed as possible. Women love self-confident men and the last thing you want to do is to tell her something that will make your self-esteem look not so great.
Note: being self-confident and being cocky are two entirely different things. Make sure you never-ever do or say something that can be seen as cocky because women hate that.
I bet lots of guys hit on you all the time
Many guys and even some girls are hitting on her on a daily basis but that doesn’t mean you should talk about it. After all you are one of those guys.
There are many other things you should not say to a beautiful woman but those things are not beauty related.
Always remember that true beauty comes from within.